The leader: Nobody can be alone

This is article 4 of 4 in The Long Focus. Here is article 3.

The last piece in this series walked through seven ways of seeing a business as a living system. This one asks the question that follows naturally from that. Who is supposed to lead a system like that? I got five answers in the conversation that started this series, and I disagreed with the shape of the answer before I disagreed with any of the content.

Five roles, one job description

The leader of tomorrow, as I heard it described, needs to hold five roles at once. Vision holder, the person who can see a possibility that others can't yet. Guide, the person who helps others get comfortable exploring toward that vision without knowing the exact route. Gatherer, the person who brings the right people together and builds the relationships that let a group move as one. Enabler, the person who develops others rather than just directing them. Coach, the person who asks the questions that help people grow into what a situation truly requires.

Read that list again. That's not a job description. That's five job descriptions stitched together and handed to one person. On top of whatever this person was already doing.

Why I don't believe one person can hold all five

I've thought about this for close to a decade, long before this conversation gave me better language for it. No single person carries all five of these capacities at a consistently high level. I've watched visionary leaders who couldn't gather a room to save their lives. I've watched brilliant coaches who had no real vision to offer anyone. I've watched gatherers who could build any relationship in the building and still couldn't guide a team through a single hard decision.

The old model of leadership asked one person to be all five things, permanently, alone. In my experience, it never actually worked. It just looked like it worked because the gaps were absorbed by everyone beneath that person, quietly, at real cost.

What I think actually works

Years ago, I started playing with an idea I never fully developed. Co-leadership. Not one leader who is hard and one who is soft, though that's the easy version of the idea. Something closer to a structure where different people hold different roles from this list, by design, and the organisation treats that as strength rather than a gap to be filled by hiring one impossible person.

One person can often initiate something. Start a company, launch an idea, get the first version off the ground. What I no longer believe is that the same person can sustain everything that follows, indefinitely, without the structure eventually breaking under the weight of demands it was never built to carry.

The permission we've never given ourselves

We need to give ourselves permission to admit the old version of leadership never fully worked, and it certainly won't work now that the list of what a leader must be has grown to five roles instead of one. That's not a criticism of any individual leader who tried to carry it. It's a criticism of a model that asked too much of any single human being and called the resulting strain a leadership failure instead of a design failure.

The alternative isn't complicated to describe, even if it's hard to build. Someone puts their own ego aside enough to say: I'm here for the group, not for my own position in it. I'll lead where I'm suited to lead, and I'll take direction from someone else where they're suited better than I am.

What humility actually looks like in practice

The future of leadership requires humility, and I don't mean the soft, self-effacing kind people sometimes picture when they hear that word. I mean the harder kind: knowing precisely which of the five roles you're genuinely good at, saying so honestly, and stepping back for the roles you aren't.

Humble leaders tend not to be the ones we remember or celebrate, because when the work goes well, the people around them believe they did it themselves. That's not a failure of the humble leader. In my experience, it's the clearest evidence the leadership actually worked.

A test worth applying

If you want a real-world marker for this kind of leadership, look at how many business owners choose to sell their company to their own employees rather than to the highest outside bidder. Employee ownership rarely pays the top dollar available on the open market. Choosing it anyway tends to mean two things at once. Firstly, the founder's legacy continues in a way that benefits the people who built it, and secondly, the decision wasn't driven primarily by a desire to acquire more personal wealth.

I think that's one of the more honest signals for spotting the kind of leader this piece describes. Not a mission statement. An actual, financially costly choice made in the founder's own interest against the founder's own short-term gain.

Why this connects to everything earlier in this series

Force gave way to flow. Over-focus gave way to balance. Fragmented problem solving gave way to seeing whole systems. Each shift in this series has pointed toward the same conclusion from a different angle. Control concentrated in one place, whether that's one metric, one focus, or one person, eventually breaks under its own weight. Distributed attention, distributed effort, and now distributed leadership are the same idea, applied at different scales.

Permission is the whole point

People need permission to lead differently than the model they were handed. Ultimately, each person has to give that permission to themselves. But it helps when more of us say out loud that the different way is not just acceptable, but it may be the only way that was ever going to hold up under real pressure.

I spent thirty years believing leadership meant carrying everything myself, because that's what I was taught leadership meant. I don't believe that anymore. I think the leader worth becoming is the one willing to say, clearly and without apology, that some of this job was never meant for one person to hold alone.

That's where this series ends, and it feels like the right place to land. Not with a bigger to-do list for leaders already carrying too much. With permission to put some of it down and share the weight with people equally capable of carrying it.

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